Some of the things I write about on my blog are not being written in real time. They are things that happened years ago. There’s often more to the story than can be contained in one blog post so the story will be continued in future blog posts.
When I write about traumatic events in my past, responding by telling me to move on or stop dwelling on it is not appreciated. If you’re someone I know commenting anonymously isn’t going to work because your IP address will tell me who you are.
As Anne Lamott would say, I own everything that happened to me and I will tell my stories. If you wanted me to write warmly about you, you should have behaved better.